I'm not a payphone -You don't have to insert or give money just to talk to me. If you want to talk, then call! What's so hard about that?
I'm not an instant messenger -If you have something to say, tell it straight. Stop passing messages through me.
I'm not an atm/credit card -Stop using me for your personal benefits.
I'm not a press office -Stop bombarding me with your personal issues and your friends' issues. I mean why the hell mention them to me anyway? I don't know your friends, I don't know what you're talking about, I don't know you (anymore...)
I'm not a bar/night club -You don't have to pay to see me. Just come over and visit, why's that so hard? It's not like I have bouncers to keep you away from me.

I can go on and on with this list. You complain that I am not talking to you, and you accuse me of avoiding you -who makes an effort to drive 60-70km away from home just to see you? I may not have been calling or texting you as often as you wish, but at least I make an effort to SEE you -which is much better than mere messages. If you want to see me so much, if you want to spend time with me badly, why won't you come over here? Why do I have to be the one to go all the way there? 'Cause I'm better of? 'Cause I'm too far? What about you?

I am not a tool, I am not a material object. I am a human being -I am your daughter.